test: 1.4.18 get xapian working under github actions and python 3.13

issue2551338 xapian doesn't build in CI for 3.13 python

Change to allow 1 hour of tmate ssh debugging before session is disconected.

[skip travis]

.github/workflows/build-xapian.yml

@@ -71,7 +71,7 @@ jobs:
       - name: Setup tmate session
         uses: mxschmitt/action-tmate@v3
         if: ${{ github.event_name == 'workflow_dispatch' && inputs.debug_enabled }}
-        timeout-minutes: 10
+        timeout-minutes: 60
         with:
           limit-access-to-actor: true