join be aware of cancel signal (#9450)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #9450

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #9430

Problem Summary:

What is changed and how it works?

Check cancel signal inside join

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
• No code

Cancel a query with a cross join

mysql> select count(*) from t1;
+----------+
| count(*) |
+----------+
|  8000392 |
+----------+
mysql> explain select count(*) from t1 where id not in (select id from t1);
+------------------------------------------+------------+--------------+---------------+-----------------------------------------------------------------+
| id                                       | estRows    | task         | access object | operator info                                                   |
+------------------------------------------+------------+--------------+---------------+-----------------------------------------------------------------+
| HashAgg_35                               | 1.00       | root         |               | funcs:count(Column#8)->Column#7                                 |
| └─TableReader_37                         | 1.00       | root         |               | MppVersion: 2, data:ExchangeSender_36                           |
|   └─ExchangeSender_36                    | 1.00       | mpp[tiflash] |               | ExchangeType: PassThrough                                       |
|     └─HashAgg_13                         | 1.00       | mpp[tiflash] |               | funcs:count(1)->Column#8                                        |
|       └─HashJoin_34                      | 6400313.60 | mpp[tiflash] |               | CARTESIAN anti semi join, other cond:eq(test.t1.id, test.t1.id) |
|         ├─ExchangeReceiver_21(Build)     | 8000392.00 | mpp[tiflash] |               |                                                                 |
|         │ └─ExchangeSender_20            | 8000392.00 | mpp[tiflash] |               | ExchangeType: Broadcast, Compression: FAST                      |
|         │   └─TableFullScan_19           | 8000392.00 | mpp[tiflash] | table:t1      | keep order:false                                                |
|         └─TableFullScan_18(Probe)        | 8000392.00 | mpp[tiflash] | table:t1      | keep order:false                                                |
+------------------------------------------+------------+--------------+---------------+-----------------------------------------------------------------+

Before this pr

After this pr

Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

Release note

fix bug that join can not be cancelled timely.

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